How to differentiate between Energy-boosters and Energy-drainers?

It is said that man is a social animal. Till we are alive, we are surrounded by people. Every person that comes in our lives has a purpose behind it, the moment he has served his part, his role is almost accomplished. During the years he has been in our lives, he appears to be important.

Obviously, you have met so many people till now and will be willing to meet millions of people in future. But among them, few people will remain unforgettable for you. These are the people, whom company you like and who fill your life with positive energy. You feel delighted to be around them.

Similarly, there are other people too with whom you feel down. They make you feel negative. Within minutes of the meeting, you find that you are trapped. It is because these people have negative vibes and they try to spread the same with people around.

Now the question arises, how to deal with such people! What to do to refrain away from them and remain unaffected with their negative vibes in our lives. The question is complicated but its answer is straight. First and foremost, you should recognize these people. Whenever you meet any new person then always pay attention to it how he makes you feel, what is your thought process while being around them.

Do you feel heavy or monotonous while meeting them? Do you feel negative or do you feel that you are lacking many attributes and feel inferior? If it happens, then make sure to stay away from them as soon as possible because he is draining your energy. No matter how difficult it seems, you should kick them out of your life without wasting time. 

Such people not only torture you mentally but also harm you physically. No matter what you try to please them or influence them, they can never be happy with you. They are with you till you suffice their needs.

Make the most of the blessing you got from heaven, called ‘LIFE’! Don’t waste it for the people who don’t value you.

Are You Raising Your Child Right?

Becoming a parent makes you feel proud. Indeed, it is a wonderful feeling that adds more worth to your life. Raising your child positively has become a challenge these days. We are nowhere behind in nurturing them in the best possible way but the outcome is really not satisfying.

Let’s have a look how we can help our children to enjoy their childhood.

Stay Him Away from Distractions!

Technology is important but you should have a fair idea about the right age to start it. Positive parenting has been challenging and the technological advancement has also affected it. We should not emphasis on technology for kids, especially toddlers. Avoid buying those gadgets, remote cars or such devices that deprive them to feel the real joy of childhood.

                                         Having a Hobby can Help!

Develop a hobby in your child. Enroll him for a music class, learning instrument or creative writing or painting. This activity not only keeps him engage but will also help him learning something beautiful. It has been observed that the kids who are indulged in any form of art are more likely to have a better perspective towards life as compared to those who don’t.

Make Your Child Feel Your Presence!

Spend time with your child as much as you can. This can be one of the most beautiful gifts you can give in his childhood. Most of the time, the children of working parents are observed with signs of behavioral issues like loneliness, reserved nature, mood swings, aggressive or loud. Every child deserves love of his parents and spending time is vital to make him feel loved.

Let’s help each child live a blissful childhood!

Kerala-Perfect Destination for True Solace-Seekers!

Kerala in India is a wonderful destination that boasts of unmatched natural beauty. It has everything to allure visitors. Find out the reasons which make it an ideal destination for peace-lovers.

Since my childhood, I have been reading and listening about Kerala. It is a fantastic destination which captures my fantasy. Let’s know more about this amazing place in India. No matter what you are looking for, Kerala opens up a bag of surprises for you. The place has been known for its unpolluted natural beauty that steals visitors’ heart. It has a lot to enchant you including natural beauty, scrumptious food, relaxing massage and many others.

With amazing backwaters and beaches, it is a place that one should visit at least once in life. Lying in the southern corner of India, this stunning country has won accolades from millions of tourists. The destination beckons honeymooners, peace-lovers and adventurers equally.

Though it offers numerous reasons to visit yet I have discovered few reasons that will make your journey more memorable.

Five reasons which makes it a perfect destination for solace-seekers.

Amazing Joy of Ayurveda 

Who does not know about Kerala Ayurveda? It has gained popularity worldwide. Visitors from all around the world especially come here to experience the soothing Ayurveda massages. Being in a calm place and enjoy such traditional healing is a different experience altogether.

Back to Yourself with Backwaters 

The far-stretched backwaters fill your heart with joy and tranquillity. The beauty of these natural attractions is worth to witness. They not only enchant you but also make your heart delighted. Where can you expect such peace and soothing views?

Blissful Beauty of Beaches 

Beaches are known for crowd of visitors. When it comes to Kerala, not all the beaches are crowded. If your peace-loving heart wishes to spend some time in tranquillity, you can always plan to visit the less-crowded beaches here.

Home on Houseboats 

Who does not like the idea of living in a traditional home? Well, if you do not wish to compromise with modern comforts then leave the worries behind. These houseboats are built traditionally but offer all the modern day conveniences to the dwellers.

Voyage Through Villages 

Do not forget to visit the villages of this enchanting destination. It will help you learn about their unique culture. You can also get memories of the tour while witnessing the living style of the locals.

If you wish to experience a different world, head to Kerala, the God’s own country. The stunning place has everything to delight your soul. It has heap of attractions to make your exploration truly rewarding.

Saying 'No' is Vital for Your Goal Achievement!

Living in a country like India will always earn you great values. We all have been taught that we should obey the elders and respect them. All other teachings that have been adding values to our life include honesty, sincerity and generosity. Unfortunately, how hard we may try; we cannot stick to those traditional values in today’s fanciful world.

Here, I am not demotivating readers to forget the values that have been traditionally accepted worldwide. The question is ‘Can you fulfil each and every promise you make’? If not, then who are you boasting of great traditional values.

We need to learn to say no. At times, it becomes necessary to refuse somebody’s proposal. Imagine, you are always in the habit of helping others and you are always up for them. What if you cannot keep your word in a situation which really does not allow you to live up to the expectations of others?

Helping others is good but you need to be aware of the fact that you cannot be available every time for everyone’s help. So, beware of making false promise that might affect your goodwill.

For example, you are in the middle of an important project while you neighbour approaches you with a mood to watch a cricket match. Both are vital to you; what will you prefer. You need to have a clear idea of what is important to you at that time. However, the best way to say no is to saying it politely. Make the other person understand your situation and refuse him in a nice way.

You are not obliged to accompany your friends for a movie every time. Better be focused on your goals and adjust these distractions in a way that it should not divert you from your goals. Even if you waste a single day, it can affect your plan of achieving your goals.

In a nutshell, helping others is the best virtue one can have. I only mean to say that refrain from making false promises and do not let others expect too much that they cannot take ‘No’ from your side positively.

5 Habits to Lead a Better Life!

  Let's not get into an impressive introduction! We all somewhere are aware of these facts that can help us leading a quality life but we turn a deaf ear to them. Let's take it seriously now and live a blessed life!

1. Observe Your Thoughts!

Many of us think that we have no control over thoughts. They just occur to us. It is true that we come across good and bad thoughts every day. But we need to observe our thoughts in order to get our energy moves towards right direction. So, if you come across one negative thought, redirect your mind to ten positive thoughts so that negativity would not exist for you.

  2. Make the Right Choice!

Life is beautiful. We all face ups and downs throughout our life. But the best part is that any adversity cannot last for long. Staying positive in difficult situation can not only ease you to face that time easily but also paves a way to a good future. We all have choices to say ‘No’ to Negativity. Don’t allow it if you really do not wish it.

3. Extend Help to Others! 

Helping others is the best way to experience true bliss of life. Do not look for excuses; start from where you are. This help can be monetary, morally or emotionally. Be it any form of help, it imbibes the good soul and makes you feel con tended. The more you will help others, the more you will create a good fortune for yourself.

4. Chase Your Dreams!

We all have some dreams in our life. There is a difference between goals and dreams. Goals can be achieved with consistent efforts but dreams can remain unfulfilled if you do not plan your actions. So turn your dreams into your goals and be persistent towards their fulfilment.

  5. Gratitude is the Way! 

Feel the power of gratitude. Be thankful for the blessings you have in your life. The more you will be grateful towards little things you have, there will be more reasons to feel grateful for. Remember, gratitude is the most powerful characteristic that one can ever have.

                                                           *****************

That Midnight Call- 4th & Last Part!

That’s great! Really! When? Emily, out of excitement was not able to ensure which question to ask first when she got a call from James. He was coming back after becoming a successful entrepreneur from U.S.A.

Alisha joined the family after one week knowing that her brother would be coming soon. Edrick got delighted to hear about the arrival of James and started counting the days.

Finally, it was the day when Edrick along with Alisha left for airport to pick up James. Emily stayed back at home as she wanted to prepare a variety of dishes that his son used to love. Few hours passed and Emily’s excitement turned into concern and she rushed to call them. Meanwhile, the doorbell rang and her joy knew no bounds when she saw James. Her little boy turned into a tall and well-groomed gentleman. Alisha and Edrick made their way towards home and James followed them.

Emily sensed the atmosphere which was not normal and excited when they left. She tried to find out the reason of silence and got to know soon.

“James wanted to marry Angela!” Heaving a long sigh, Edrick said. “What?” “How?” and “when did it happen?” Emily could not help asking a series of questions.

After some time, she got a clear picture. Angela was a fellow student in the business school, U.S.A where James studied. By the end of their studies, the feeling developed and they decided to get married.

Conflicts replaced silence which turned into differences of opinion. After 1 month of the emotional outbursts, Emily and Edrick gave their consent to the marriage.

They visited Angela’s home and got to know that her mother died years ago. “Mom, Please ignore if you don’t like something, Angela is my life, I cannot afford to lose her’ James made his best efforts to plead his parents last time.

Angela opened the door; exchanged greetings and pointed them to sit on the sofas lying in the corner of a big hall. Alisha sat beside James and Edrick sat with Emily. After waiting for few minutes, Angela’s father came out. A tall gentleman with curly hair appeared, adjusting his big spectacles on the nose. Emily got shocked to see him. It was Avi whom she wanted to marry once.  Avi, who turned out her proposal years ago. That’s Avi whom she could not forget for a long time.

She sat again on the sofa and tried to behave normally. Avi, too pretended as they were meeting for the first time. After a formal conversation, they left and asked Angela to wait for their decision. Though Edrick was ready to say ‘Yes’ to their relationship but Emily requested Edrick not to utter a single word then.

They came back. Emily got into flashback and recalled everything. She did not want to see Avi anymore. But what’s the fault of James who has fallen in love with a girl, who is Avi’s daughter.

No, “I won’t let it happen again.” Avi, “I can’t be like you”! Having decided this, Emily went to James’ room and kissed his son on forehead. She came out of the room and wiped her tears.

Next morning, she said Edrick to call Avi to fix the wedding date! Emily was contended to see James smiling, an expression of his gratitude! 

*************

That Midnight Call-Part 3

‘I’m not crying as you are here’! Finding herself unable to hide tears, Emily sobbed!.

‘I was always there!’ What’s wrong with you? Erick tried to find out. ‘I bring coffee for you’ Emily made an excuse and left.

Erick, having a confused expression moved towards his bedroom and changed clothes. Emily washed her face and tried to smile before appearing in front of Erick again.

Before Erick asked more, the doorbell grabbed their attention. It was a courier for Emily. She received and kept it aside. After sometime, Erick got engaged with few important calls and the atmosphere got back to normal once again.

Emily didn’t go to see Avi. One week passed and she got busy with routine. Keeping pace with time, Emily turned into a mother of two kids, Jenny and James.

Time started flying. Grey hair added grace to Emily’s personality. The age never diminished charisma that Emily had. Edrick also aged gracefully and was busy in growing his business all these years.

Enjoying the bliss of motherhood, she managed responsibilities of professional life for 20 years.

It was her retirement day. Her colleagues came to see her and organized a warm farewell for her. At night, Edrick asked Emily whether they should go to kids who were settled in U.S.A for their career goals. Emily wanted to be with kids but she did not wish to move to a new country altogether. 

To be continued....