Unlike old days, life has become fast-moving. Living peacefully nowadays seems a distant dream for most of us. Not only adults but children are also getting affected by this. In such scenario, we all need to make an effort to make the atmosphere nice for entire family, especially for our kids.
Overhelping the Child!
Most of us would agree with me that our ancestors used to encourage us to learn on our own and rarely helped us. That was indeed a good way to make child independent from the beginning itself. But now, the picture is entirely different. Most of the new-age parents are so overcaring for children that they don't let them grow naturally. They are always ready to extend help even if it is not required. It would not be wrong to say that they do have children's well-being in their mind but this is not the way it should be.
Adding More Luxuries!
The children are being emotionally, physically and mentally weaker as compared to the old era. Reason being we tend to supply every luxury to them without asking. The motive behind is simple that our child should not be deprived of anything. But it is creating a 'void' in their life. They are forgetting the art of sharing and owning a possessive behaviour for their belongings. We really need to watch it over and make their life little uneasy (not to be taken literally) by not adding each and every luxury to their life. It will help them grow normally and they won't face any difficulty in adjusting in an ambience which is not so luxurious.
Less Communication!
Nowadays most of the families have less members, usually mother, father and siblings (less chances of siblings too). So child has natural tendency to not mingle with many people. This way, he is becoming emotionally weaker and high on sensitivity which is not good for him in future. Parents need to take their children out and make it a habit to let them open up with people other than the family members.
Lack of Right Example!
It is said that nowadays there are not many physical diseases. Most of them starts from our state of mind resulting into mental illness which has an adverse effect on our physical health. Children are experiencing abnormal behavior at home where elders showcase irritation, anger, frustration and yelling. It leaves your child wondered which world is this. The situation even get worse if your child is a toddler as this is the age he starts observing and makes it a real lesson for life what he observes.
Parents! Wake up please and let your child enjoy a blissful childhood.
Overhelping the Child!
Most of us would agree with me that our ancestors used to encourage us to learn on our own and rarely helped us. That was indeed a good way to make child independent from the beginning itself. But now, the picture is entirely different. Most of the new-age parents are so overcaring for children that they don't let them grow naturally. They are always ready to extend help even if it is not required. It would not be wrong to say that they do have children's well-being in their mind but this is not the way it should be.
Adding More Luxuries!
The children are being emotionally, physically and mentally weaker as compared to the old era. Reason being we tend to supply every luxury to them without asking. The motive behind is simple that our child should not be deprived of anything. But it is creating a 'void' in their life. They are forgetting the art of sharing and owning a possessive behaviour for their belongings. We really need to watch it over and make their life little uneasy (not to be taken literally) by not adding each and every luxury to their life. It will help them grow normally and they won't face any difficulty in adjusting in an ambience which is not so luxurious.
Less Communication!
Nowadays most of the families have less members, usually mother, father and siblings (less chances of siblings too). So child has natural tendency to not mingle with many people. This way, he is becoming emotionally weaker and high on sensitivity which is not good for him in future. Parents need to take their children out and make it a habit to let them open up with people other than the family members.
Lack of Right Example!
It is said that nowadays there are not many physical diseases. Most of them starts from our state of mind resulting into mental illness which has an adverse effect on our physical health. Children are experiencing abnormal behavior at home where elders showcase irritation, anger, frustration and yelling. It leaves your child wondered which world is this. The situation even get worse if your child is a toddler as this is the age he starts observing and makes it a real lesson for life what he observes.
Parents! Wake up please and let your child enjoy a blissful childhood.
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