Soul Brides

Recalling the day when I had a glimpse of you,

The divinity on your face was spreading through!

 

Could not speak to you but saw you talking,

the eternal peace that you were transferring!

 

Next, I got a call and heard your voice;

Felt like connecting to source of rejoice!

 

We promised to see one day and here we were;

Sharing knowledge and laughter with each other!

 

Days passed by and so did the learning;

And the faith in ‘Waheguru’ was firming!

 

‘Soul brides’ as you redefined us;

We all took joy in listening to you for hours!

 

Every week, we got engrossed in one thing or another;

But we felt comfort by reuniting with each other!

 

You brought us closer to our supreme power;

Helping us find the purpose & bloom like a flower!

 

We joined you in chanting and meditating;

When the world seems falling & we were waiting!

 

You were there for us to hold our hands;

No matter where and how it withstands!

 

The journey has taken a halt but it is still on;

Each one of us is writing a new story of their own!

 

Dedicated to my life coach and spiritual mentor- Gurpreet Kaur! 

What an aura you carry! Blessed to find you in this life!

Smiling through Scars

  

Blessed are those who pray for others while struggling with pain inside!

 

She managed to smile,

didn’t want to be hostile.

The ignorance pinched her hard,

And then started the bombard.

 

At her every small move,

She had to prove.

And it continued for years,

She pined for love from dears.

 

Each day she had to drag (herself);

As didn’t know how to brag.

She entered a room full of expectations,

And faced a lot of rejections.

 

Once was a happy-go-lucky soul,

Others’ happiness was her only goal.

While pleasing others every single day,

Her dream life had to delay.

 

She wanted to speak aloud,

But was mum throughout.

Waiting for them to value her sacrifice,

Expectation from her only magnifies.

 

Dealing with the nasty feeling of rejection

She found herself in dejection.

What went wrong, she wondered,

She cried like a little bird.

 

‘What has she done’- she overheard,

And she was shattered.

Bearing endless pain inside,

She walked away and got aside.

 

She gave wings to her dreams,

While silencing her inner screams,

She knew it’s not worth chasing anymore;

As things could never be the same as before.

 

Finding strength in helping others;

She found her place where she matters.

She grew like a tree and raised the bar;

Has been smiling through scar (s).

 

Dedicated to all the women who have embraced their pain, shone, and all set to inspire others to live an abundant life (full of gratitude). 

 

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How to Kill Time with 5 Most Engaging Activities During Lockdown?

Well, the world is fighting against the CO-VID19 and we are at home during lockdown period. Don’t you think life is too short to feel bored?  So, how the lockdown period is going for you? Answer to this question may vary depending on your experience right now! However, if you are finding it hard to deal with this crucial time without getting bored, here are few activities that you may consider:

1. Introduce Yourself to PMA Reading!

Now, some of you may say that we are aware of it or we are already reading! But here is the most important thing ‘what are you reading’? If my question sounds little funky to you then take a pause and think why I am suggesting to read a PMA (Positive Mental Attitude) book. The digital world is flooded with information including facts and rumors and we are unknowingly grasping it.

As you know, everything goes into our mind has an impact on our thought process. So, if you wish to think right then it is important to read a PMA book that helps you gain the positivity which is much required during lockdown. Beware of sticking to browsing to all sort of negative information that you actually do not need to live life.

2. Return to Your Favorite Hobby!

Remember the time you used to complain about not getting enough time to pursue your hobby! Due to the constant pressure to cope up with modern lifestyle choices, our hobbies were at backseat. Well it is the time to get back to your hobby. Open your Almirah, take out your painting kit and start painting. If you love gardening, what could be better way to do it when you are available at home during sunrise and sunset!

No more rush to meet the corporate deadlines, no bucking up for office and skipping breakfast and no returning home dead tired! It is perfect time to be at peace with yourself and with nature. How about getting back to singing you once used to enjoy much? For dance-lovers, it is the right time to put your dancing shoes on and rock the world. If you are a sport enthusiast, do not let this chance go in vain.

3. Engage Yourself in Per Diem Workout!

Being at home does not mean anyway eat, sleep and relax. Lace up your workout shoes and try fitness exercises at home. You can pick whatever you want based on your stamina and physique. Find the one that keeps you in high spirit and carry on with it. Be it Dancing, Zumba, Salsa, Workout or Intensive fitness regime, stick with it.

Let this lockdown do not result into unnecessary weight gain that you might regret later. Burning calories is important even now as well. Stick to your daily exercise routine and enjoy it. If you were not exercising previously, this is good time to go about. After all, once the lockdown is over, you would not prefer to look heavier. So, get excited to stay in shape.

4. Time to Learn the Long-awaited Skills!

Some of us are really keen to acquire new skills but for one or another reason, we cannot make it possible. If you are one of them, let this time be productive. Finding time in your routine life is a challenge itself. Thankfully, lockdown has made it easier for us. We can choose the skill we wish to learn and simply go ahead.

Browse the online courses and pick the one that goes well with your interest. This way, you will never be bored rather at the end of the day, you will feel more contended because you have spent time in learning something new. Learning keeps your mind active and makes you feel more confident. Happy learning ahead!

5. Luxuriate in Fond Memories!

Most importantly, keep yourself entertained the way you like the most. Play with children, cook with spouse or listen to the stories by elders at home. It is the time to look back at memories and relive those precious moments that you had spent with loved once. Take out the family album and see it with other members and feel the nostalgia. 

Who does not want to spend time with family? Well, the time is right here, make the most of it. Sit, talk, cook, listen and laugh together because it takes years to get your wish fulfilled of spending quality time with loved ones. Share ideas with each other and make every day count like you had never before.

This once-in-a-lifetime break awaits you to open your horizon! Are you ready for it?

A Visit to Meraki-An Artistic Affair!!

If you are wondering what took me so long to get back to my blog page, so am I. Honestly, there is no excuse for it because I was really looking for something unique to talk about. Fortunately, it came as a surprise to me in the first month of New Year 2020 when I got an opportunity to visit an art exhibition in Delhi.

‘Meraki-Creative Concepts’, the art exhibition was organized at Lalit Kala Academy in the heart of the capital city of India. It was 12^th January, I decided to visit the place with few close friends. It was a cold day for me and I made sure to wrap up myself before heading to exhibition. Within 1 hour, we did manage to reach there. What a wonderful place it was! Upon entering, we all were enthralled by the amazing art structures dotted all around. The Art Gallery was enveloped by trees and small and giant art structures.

I got to know about this exhibition from Ekta Kapoor, a great artist and to my delight, I got a chance to greet her right after I reached there. I was so excited to see Ekta after a long time and I could sense joy on the other side.

We made our way to Gallery no. 5 where Ekta started showing us her paintings. As we were moving ahead, our joy knew no bounds, looking at incredible art pieces. I must say it is really hard to understand the thought behind an artwork till you meet the artist who can explain you about them. 

So, we requested Ekta to share her idea about the paintings created by her. She shared with us how she got an inspiration for each painting and we were mesmerized by her story. Artists are truly gifted by God. I wonder how could they conceive an idea and draw it with brushes and make it a visual treat for art-admirers. Though we liked each and every painting exhibited over there but we were more impressed by those few about which we got to know by the artist because not everyone can understand art and so were we.

I am sure that there is a story behind every art piece created by artists. If you are lucky enough, you get to know about them. During my conversation with Ekta, I was surprised to know that each and every element in a painting signifies one thing or another.

Here I would like to talk about few paintings by Ekta Kapoor which I remember.

• A lady with a chameleon placed in her head indicate the emotional ups and downs. What a thoughtful depiction!
• A painting showing kettle overflowing with tea is a beautiful depiction of a common man’s everyday need. (We can’t ever think of it, hats off to the artist!)
• I spotted a sparrow in one of the paintings and upon asking the artist, I got to know that sparrows are being disappeared and we would be deprived of seeing them in future. (True, indeed)
• There was one painting of ‘Aladdin ka Chirag’ (that’s how we call it) that reminded me of our childhood days when we used to listen to stories by our elders.
• One painting that grabbed my attention had huge milk vessels which used to be a common sight for children but soon these will be remained in stories only.  

Then, we made our way to other paintings which left us awe-inspired. What a great amount of hard work and effort it takes, we cannot even imagine! We were in a different world altogether where art, tranquility and delight accompanied us. We had to leave after an hour due to another important commitment. But our heart and mind was so overjoyed on seeing the incredible artwork that we kept talking about the same the entire day.

At last, I thank you Ekta Kapoor from the bottom of my heart for this amazing experience. I am fond of art and love to witness such great creative work. I wonder when it had taken a backseat in my life while going with the flow of life. I am glad to get back to the lanes of creativity that keeps me blissful. I wish all the luck, success and blessings to you Ekta Kapoor! May God help you grow in coming years!

Dedicated to Eka Kapoor, who is very close to my heart!

The Most Eccentric Festivals around the World!

World is a home to many cultures and every culture brings along a fair share of occasions to celebrate. Eating, drinking and dancing are a common part of most of the festivals. But there are few festivals that will give you a culture shock. Let’s learn more.

Air Guitar World Championships – Celebrating Harmony!

Ever wondered experiencing the unadulterated rock and roll and that too, without the instruments! Well, if it is hard to believe for you, it would be equally interesting to know that one such festival actually takes place in Finland. The festival is termed as Air Guitar World Championships which is organized to promote the world peace. It serves as a fascinating show for people who get to see the incredible performances from he world’s best air guitarists.

 La Tomatina – Mass Tomato Fight!

What else you can do with tomatoes instead of cooking and eating? How about having a tomato fight? It actually happens at the famous La Tomatina festival, celebrated in Spain. Here you can witness and be a part of the mass tomato fight in the streets. There is an interesting tale behind this festival. In fact, it started as a street fight between teenagers who were using tomatoes from the adjacent vegetable stalls. Now it happens every year and within 1 hour of starting this festival, the town is covered in tomatoes so badly that the fire department has to invade to spray everything down.

 

El Colacho- Jumping Over Babies!

EL Colacho is also termed as the baby jumping festival. It occurs annually on the feast of Corpus Christi in Castrillo de Murcia, a Spanish village. You will get to witness the new-born babies till the age of 12 months are placed on a mattress in the street. After that, all the adult men of the village are supposed to take their turns by jumping over them. Though there are usually injuries happen but people believe that it only involves the jumpers and not the babies. Hard to believe, isn’t it?

Lopburi Monkey Banquet – Feast for Monkeys!

The next festival in our list of bizarre festivals is the Lapburi Money Banquet festival which is also known as Monkey Festival. Around three thousand monkeys are there to relishing on fruits, vegetables and lot more eatables including ice-cream. This is a perfect opportunity to swing by the madness of monkeys. An interesting sight to behold is monkeys stuffing their faces. It holds no significance and is seen as only an alleged attempt to boost tourism. Be ready to hang out with a bunch of monkeys!

Underwater Music Festival – Ready for Subaqueous Party?

How many of us ever thought of being a guest at an underwater party? It is not impossible with the Underwater Music Festival, celebrated in Florida. If you ever wished so, it is the time to live your dream at this quirky celebration. The concert is organized at the coral reef and gains attention of public for their entertainment. Besides, it is also aimed at raising awareness for coral reef preservation. Participants get a chance to mime along to music using particularly sculpted underwater musical instruments. Are you all set to see the divers, snorkelers and musicians beautifully dressed in whimsical nautical costumes?

A Day Well Spent

‘A Perfect Day’ well, we all have uttered this word at least once in a lifetime. Do we actually realize its true essence? What could be the perfect day for you? For different people, it is different. For some, it is the day, they spend happily for one or another reason. For others, the day can be termed as ‘perfect’ which they have been longing for quite some time i.e. days, months or even years.

A perfect day is when your soul smiles

You Can Make Any Day ‘Perfect’

Well, I think any day can be perfect if one wishes to make it. Again, it depends on your preferences and choice of tasks you wish to include in your ‘perfect day’ other than following the regular routine. For me, it is a perfect day when you derive happiness by doing something for someone. Don’t get me wrong here; yes we do it every day for our loved ones. But how about doing something unexpected for someone that can make his or her day!

Find Out the Opportunities to Help

 It can be assisting someone with their hectic schedule or helping the needy with the things that can actually make a difference in their life. I don’t think any of us has been deprived of doing something for others. It’s a pure joy that not only gives you sense of satisfaction but also adds to your peace of mind by experiencing the hidden ‘Bliss’.

Backseat Yourself for the Time Being

There are times in life when we feel delighted or even sad for no reason. Unable to understand, we carried away with the emotion throughout the day. When you are delighted, you automatically take joy in everything you do. But the scenario is completely different when you feel dejected. It is the time when you need to hold and check to switch on your mood.

Shift Your Focus on Helping Others

We all have different ways to deal with sadness. Some of us simply hang around with friends; others indulge in their favorite pastime, movie or shows. It may help for the time being but that little sadness which you feel inside does not fade away completely. Let’s try this; get up that very moment and decide to shift your focus on thinking about others. Ponder over what you can do to add little joy to someone’s life. Only then you will be able to call it a day that is well spent.

You can make anyone smile anywhere, anytime and anyhow. Make most of your ‘life’ the best gift from God.

Blessings are on their Way....

As we progress in life, we start realizing the true worth of beautiful gift, 'LIFE'. No matter how long we have been worried about the things that were not going fine, there comes a time when you feel that the best time was what you lost.

'Present' is the Best Moment
'Live in the Present' this simple quote has the essence of life if one can truly understand it. Life is too simple and it is 'We' who create complications. Accept the simplicity of life as it is and enjoy going with the flow. It is one of the best ways to lead a peaceful life.

Enjoy the 'Process'
Taking joy in the bliss of life is not something that needs any expertise. Anyone can do it with a little practice. Have you ever wondered that one thing that was once your dream and after achieving it, you feel monotonous after a period of time? It is why because you may have skipped enjoying the process in quest of its achievement.


Let the 'Fears' go

It is always seen that your life is blissful most of the times. If it appears not, it is the perspective you carry along. Let's understand it through an example! Just recollect the last time something bad happen to you and how long you remained affected by the same. Human mind has lots of fears and some of them are totally baseless. A better way to deal with those fears is not to give them serious thoughts and let them go.

Look at the 'Bright' Side
Gratitude is the best way to attract more blessings in your life. It does not depend on how much wealth you have, what it takes is the right mindset to see the brighter side of life every time. Even if something worse happens to you, believe that there is something good behind this that you may not be able to see yet but will find out later.

Single 'Idea' is Enough
Enough has been said in motivational books, inspirational quotes and best literature of the world. Most of us are also aware of them too. All you need to do is pick and choose that one idea which can work best for you and make your life more enriching. Just take one thought and apply it in your life for a period of time till it gets into your habit and expect the wonders.

Moving on with 'Gratitude'

Always believe that you deserve the best life and blessings are on their way. This approach towards life makes you feel more contented every morning once you wake up. Life has both to offer; happiness and sadness so that you can enjoy the fruit of bliss after a dark and cloudy night of suffering. If you have been going through a bad phase in life, thank God for the same because you had your share of it. After that, what all left to experience is bliss, joy, laughter, contentment, and peace.

Modern Day Challenges that are Stealing Away Blissful Childhood!

Unlike old days, life has become fast-moving. Living peacefully nowadays seems a distant dream for most of us. Not only adults but children are also getting affected by this. In such scenario, we all need to make an effort to make the atmosphere nice for entire family, especially for our kids.

Overhelping the Child!

Most of us would agree with me that our ancestors used to encourage us to learn on our own and rarely helped us. That was indeed a good way to make child independent from the beginning itself. But now, the picture is entirely different. Most of the new-age parents are so overcaring for children that they don't let them grow naturally. They are always ready to extend help even if it is not required. It would not be wrong to say that they do have children's well-being in their mind but this is not the way it should be.


Adding More Luxuries!

The children are being emotionally, physically and mentally weaker as compared to the old era. Reason being we tend to supply every luxury to them without asking. The motive behind is simple that our child should not be deprived of anything. But it is creating a 'void' in their life. They are forgetting the art of sharing and owning a possessive behaviour for their belongings. We really need to watch it over and make their life little uneasy (not to be taken literally) by not adding each and every luxury to their life. It will help them grow normally and they won't face any difficulty in adjusting in an ambience which is not so luxurious.


Less Communication!

Nowadays most of the families have less members, usually mother, father and siblings (less chances of siblings too). So child has natural tendency to not mingle with many people. This way, he is becoming emotionally weaker and high on sensitivity which is not good for him in future. Parents need to take their children out and make it a habit to let them open up with people other than the family members.



Lack of Right Example!

It is said that nowadays there are not many physical diseases. Most of them starts from our state of mind resulting into mental illness which has an adverse effect on our physical health. Children are experiencing abnormal behavior at home where elders showcase irritation, anger, frustration and yelling. It leaves your child wondered which world is this. The situation even get worse if your child is a toddler as this is the age he starts observing and makes it a real lesson for life what he observes.

Parents! Wake up please and let your child enjoy a blissful childhood. 

A Thankful Note......

Dear Mentor,

Finding it hard to devote time;

You managed it with smile!

With an essence of unity;

You tied us in team affinity!

Preceded us to buck up;

You aided us to pick up!

We hesitated and smile;

And then you made us shine!

You were always on your toes;

To make us steadily grow!

Glad to shout with joy;

To learn from you as lay!

Feeding us to gain energy;

You added to our felicity!

Fighting against odds;

You induced us to left off!

Falling in love with your attitude;

Expressing our gratitude!

Proving our worth was on your mind;

Thank you for being so kind!

Dedicated to my Gurmukhi mentor from -Navi Umeed !!

5 Things to Change Your Life for Betterment!

Well, our ancestors have never ever thought that the upcoming generations will move towards learning the art of life. Unfortunately, it is true in today’s fast-paced life where everyone seems in hurry to join the rat race of making money. While we have got more facilities than ever, we are being accustomed to them so much that we forget to enjoy the true wealth we have, LIFE.

Life management is simple but we make it complicated. Leveraging on the technology, we have almost forgotten to follow the rules, set by nature.

Don’t Set Unrealistic Expectations!

Most of us have experienced this at least once in our life. We know that life is not going the way we want to live. In our endeavor to make it better, we sometimes mistake setting unrealistic expectations. No matter it is health, career, study or relationship, we want things to be changed overnight which is not possible. So, always refrain from setting unrealistic goals and try to chase them. Think well and take one step at a time to achieve success in the long run.

Stay Connected to Your Hobby!

In the world of technology, metal peace seems distant from most of us. The best way to bring back the joy in your life is to pursue a hobby. Try to remember what you used to like. Find a way and stay connected to your hobby. It is the best way for your mental well-being. Not only may people think of it because of their old lifestyle. You are fortunate if you could think and pursue your hobby at the later stage of your life.

Write Everything You Want!

This step may seem irrelevant too few of us. But it is a fact, what you write, you achieve. Reason being, while writing you are focusing on one thought that draws you near that. What you write has more chances to accomplish. If you don’t write, you may fall prey to laziness and after sometime, you will almost forget about it. So, achieve your wish by jotting down.

Reward Yourself Off and On!

Have you experienced that feeling, ‘nobody appreciates me’? Well, we all have experienced the same at one point of time in our life. While we grudge others of not appreciating us, what do we do? No matter, how big or how small achievement it is, you should feel proud of it. The best way is that plan a reward for you and feel the joy after you achieve something.

Do Something Crazy!

While saying this, I don’t want you to jump from somewhere or risk your life. Doing something crazy simply means do something beyond conventional method. For example, if you celebrate birthdays at your home always, this time why not going out. Attend a session that you find interest in. Experimenting a new recipe at home can delight someone while others may experience joy on a camel ride.

Shashi Kapoor-The Man with Chrisma and Arresting Smile!

This post would not have been on my list if I had not admired Shashi Kapoor since childhood. I have been an ardent fan of this man with the twinkle in his eyes. The magical smile that won many hearts still reminds me his early days in Bollywood. While he captured media’s attention for being associated with the proudest family of Bollywood-Kapoor Khandan, he was much more than just a Kapoor.

I would love to share few memories that remind me of this great actor.

The Childhood Trace of Acting!

In my teenage, I saw him acting in movie-AAG where he played the young Rajkapoor. What a spark! What a role played! I must say the acting was in his blood. He never had to convince in any role that he played. What he acted, it came naturally to him.

His Undying Love for Theatre!

It is a known fact now that Shashi Kapoor has also contributed in Theatre which proves his worth to the Entertainment industry. We cannot forget that Theater also served as a platform where he met his love, Jennifar Candel. Not only this, he acted in a couple of Hollywood movies as well. He has left behind the invaluable gift of 'Prithvi Theatre'.

A Series of Interesting Tales!

Being an enthusiastic fan of him, I would never miss any headlines/news/events that had Shashi Kapoor.  It reminds me of Rajkapoor’s interview where he called Shashi Kapoor as ‘Taxi’. Reason being Shashi Kapoor used to sign many movies at the same time and acted simultaneously in different projects. That made him named as ‘Taxi’ by Raj Kapoor Sahib.

Expressions of Fan's Love!

I used to love watching his movies twice, thrice or as many times as I could. I am sure there are many who have done the same. In my teenage, I had a diary having his movies name listed, few photos sourced from newspapers (because the internet was a luxury in 1990s, not everyone could avail it) and his songs. Collecting any info associated with my favorite star Shashi Kapoor made me excited for so many years.

I remember celebrating his birthday with more enthusiasm than of mine. This year also, I felt so good seeing him turning 79 on 18th March 2017. But who knows it would be his last birthday. With his sad departure from the earth, my wish to meet him once in my life remains unfulfilled. Thankfully, we have Prithvi Theatre where I can still go and feel his presence. 

A Tribute to the Legend!

All I could say Shashiji, you ruled millions of hearts and lived a life of significance. You have inspired not only Bollywood but many of your fans in countless ways. We love you and You will be Missed. No one can ever replace you! May Almighty love you!

Best TV Shows of All the Time for Beer Aficionados!

It is an open secret that people in America love to drink alcohol. This has resulted in a number of TV shows to narrate the interesting world of booze. If you wish to have a look at the realm of alcohol, do not forget to watch these TV shows. These shows talk about booze, local wines, travel drinking, vitamins for hangover and lot more.

Chug on National Geographic Network

This interesting TV show is hosted by Zane Lamprey who has been the former host of shows like Will Travel, Drinking Made Easy and Have Fork. Chug is again a travel show with an emphasis on drinking. The host mixes it with history, humor and culture and samples the local beverages of the places where he visits. This show is a must watch for wine lovers around the globe. If you too love to booze, then don’t forget to take vitamins to prevent hangover to enjoy drinking.

Dark Horse Nation on History Channel

Unlike other drinking shows, Dark Horse Nation comes as a reality show. It talks about the day to day working of the brewing company in Michigan. The Dark Horse Brewery is run by a group of friends who decided to open their own brewery to express their love for beer. The show presents an inside look at the life of the craft brewers, including its owner Aaron Morse.

Brew Dogs on Esquire Network

The owners of the show are known for creating most interesting alcohol content beers around the world. You must be thinking what is good for hangovers. Well, we can’t promise to learn about it on this show but the hosts of the show travel throughout the US stopping in brewing hotbeds like Chicago, Denver, North Carolina. They taste the local brews on their visit to different locations. They are often seen collaborating with brewers and create unique beers by using the available ingredients and local flavors. Sounds interesting go for it!

The United States of Drinking on Smithsonian Channel

This show talks about the drinking customs of American citizens. It also presents a look at the favorite drinks of Americans both past and present. Josh Ozersky, the food writer travels throughout the US and visit illicit moonshiners, cocktail bars, microbrewers, and vineyards to find what exactly makes an American drink. Ever wondered what medicine to take for a hangover! Explore it now!

Booze Traveler on the Travel Channel

The amazing thing about the show it about its host, Jack Maxwell who grew up working in the class bars of South Boston. While being employed in the bar, he learned about the various stories shared by drinkers. On his show, he has decided to share the every experience that world of booze offers. It encompasses traversing through exotic locations like Mongolia, Belize, Lithuania and South Africa where you would learn about the drinking customs and traditions. He also gets to sample the unique libations existing on the earth.

If you love booze, none can stop you from drinking. But one thing you can do for sure is to know about the hangover medicine. Make sure to know what to take to prevent hangover to add joy to the drinking. 

Empowering Others to Empower Yourself!

Gone are the days when people used to think well of others! People are selfish nowadays! Have you also heard these statements? Well, these statements we hear every now and then. Ever wondered why we sound so selfish! Let's find out!

'Busy' is Just an Excuse! 

Unlike old days, we are living a fast-paced life. No matter, which age group we belong to, everyone seems in a rush. "I have no time" is a common phrase used by most of us. Is it really so? Well, to find out, we need to closely observe our lifestyle and routine. Are we really busy into something productive or we are just escaping to take responsibility? People can still help others if they want. What you need is a 'Will' to help others.

Help Where You Are, What You Are! 

People always seem to make excuses for lack of time. But to help others, you really do not need time, rather you need willingness. If you are a professional, you can still find ways to help others. During the lunch break, you can extend hope to someone feeling distressed due to work pressure or you can simply cheer up his moods. If you are a homemaker, you can still help others to enroll yourself in any online program where your services are required. You can also help students with their studies.

Empowering Others is the Best Thing! 

It is said that woman is the enemy of woman. What if the case is the reverse? A woman can help another woman like no other. Empowering a woman starts from a woman. Start empowering a woman who is lacking in confidence, education, and stamina. Help them get good health, education, and skill so that they can live a confident life ahead because of you. By helping one woman, you can change the destiny of her whole family.


Give Back to the Society! 

We all want to be good citizens but how many of us really care to do something for it. Do your work with honesty and if you are aware of any good thing that may help society. Do not hold yourself from sharing it. Do not think how does it benefit to me. One day you do good or help others, you feel contended throughout the day. Why not make it a habit?


Always remember, life is short and this is the best time to live it. Make the most of this life and be a reason behind someone's smile. 

How to differentiate between Energy-boosters and Energy-drainers?

It is said that man is a social animal. Till we are alive, we are surrounded by people. Every person that comes in our lives has a purpose behind it, the moment he has served his part, his role is almost accomplished. During the years he has been in our lives, he appears to be important.

Obviously, you have met so many people till now and will be willing to meet millions of people in future. But among them, few people will remain unforgettable for you. These are the people, whom company you like and who fill your life with positive energy. You feel delighted to be around them.

Similarly, there are other people too with whom you feel down. They make you feel negative. Within minutes of the meeting, you find that you are trapped. It is because these people have negative vibes and they try to spread the same with people around.

Now the question arises, how to deal with such people! What to do to refrain away from them and remain unaffected with their negative vibes in our lives. The question is complicated but its answer is straight. First and foremost, you should recognize these people. Whenever you meet any new person then always pay attention to it how he makes you feel, what is your thought process while being around them.

Do you feel heavy or monotonous while meeting them? Do you feel negative or do you feel that you are lacking many attributes and feel inferior? If it happens, then make sure to stay away from them as soon as possible because he is draining your energy. No matter how difficult it seems, you should kick them out of your life without wasting time. 

Such people not only torture you mentally but also harm you physically. No matter what you try to please them or influence them, they can never be happy with you. They are with you till you suffice their needs.

Make the most of the blessing you got from heaven, called ‘LIFE’! Don’t waste it for the people who don’t value you.

Are You Raising Your Child Right?

Becoming a parent makes you feel proud. Indeed, it is a wonderful feeling that adds more worth to your life. Raising your child positively has become a challenge these days. We are nowhere behind in nurturing them in the best possible way but the outcome is really not satisfying.

Let’s have a look how we can help our children to enjoy their childhood.

Stay Him Away from Distractions!

Technology is important but you should have a fair idea about the right age to start it. Positive parenting has been challenging and the technological advancement has also affected it. We should not emphasis on technology for kids, especially toddlers. Avoid buying those gadgets, remote cars or such devices that deprive them to feel the real joy of childhood.

                                         Having a Hobby can Help!

Develop a hobby in your child. Enroll him for a music class, learning instrument or creative writing or painting. This activity not only keeps him engage but will also help him learning something beautiful. It has been observed that the kids who are indulged in any form of art are more likely to have a better perspective towards life as compared to those who don’t.

Make Your Child Feel Your Presence!

Spend time with your child as much as you can. This can be one of the most beautiful gifts you can give in his childhood. Most of the time, the children of working parents are observed with signs of behavioral issues like loneliness, reserved nature, mood swings, aggressive or loud. Every child deserves love of his parents and spending time is vital to make him feel loved.

Let’s help each child live a blissful childhood!

Kerala-Perfect Destination for True Solace-Seekers!

Kerala in India is a wonderful destination that boasts of unmatched natural beauty. It has everything to allure visitors. Find out the reasons which make it an ideal destination for peace-lovers.

Since my childhood, I have been reading and listening about Kerala. It is a fantastic destination which captures my fantasy. Let’s know more about this amazing place in India. No matter what you are looking for, Kerala opens up a bag of surprises for you. The place has been known for its unpolluted natural beauty that steals visitors’ heart. It has a lot to enchant you including natural beauty, scrumptious food, relaxing massage and many others.

With amazing backwaters and beaches, it is a place that one should visit at least once in life. Lying in the southern corner of India, this stunning country has won accolades from millions of tourists. The destination beckons honeymooners, peace-lovers and adventurers equally.

Though it offers numerous reasons to visit yet I have discovered few reasons that will make your journey more memorable.

Five reasons which makes it a perfect destination for solace-seekers.

Amazing Joy of Ayurveda 

Who does not know about Kerala Ayurveda? It has gained popularity worldwide. Visitors from all around the world especially come here to experience the soothing Ayurveda massages. Being in a calm place and enjoy such traditional healing is a different experience altogether.

Back to Yourself with Backwaters 

The far-stretched backwaters fill your heart with joy and tranquillity. The beauty of these natural attractions is worth to witness. They not only enchant you but also make your heart delighted. Where can you expect such peace and soothing views?

Blissful Beauty of Beaches 

Beaches are known for crowd of visitors. When it comes to Kerala, not all the beaches are crowded. If your peace-loving heart wishes to spend some time in tranquillity, you can always plan to visit the less-crowded beaches here.

Home on Houseboats 

Who does not like the idea of living in a traditional home? Well, if you do not wish to compromise with modern comforts then leave the worries behind. These houseboats are built traditionally but offer all the modern day conveniences to the dwellers.

Voyage Through Villages 

Do not forget to visit the villages of this enchanting destination. It will help you learn about their unique culture. You can also get memories of the tour while witnessing the living style of the locals.

If you wish to experience a different world, head to Kerala, the God’s own country. The stunning place has everything to delight your soul. It has heap of attractions to make your exploration truly rewarding.

Saying 'No' is Vital for Your Goal Achievement!

Living in a country like India will always earn you great values. We all have been taught that we should obey the elders and respect them. All other teachings that have been adding values to our life include honesty, sincerity and generosity. Unfortunately, how hard we may try; we cannot stick to those traditional values in today’s fanciful world.

Here, I am not demotivating readers to forget the values that have been traditionally accepted worldwide. The question is ‘Can you fulfil each and every promise you make’? If not, then who are you boasting of great traditional values.

We need to learn to say no. At times, it becomes necessary to refuse somebody’s proposal. Imagine, you are always in the habit of helping others and you are always up for them. What if you cannot keep your word in a situation which really does not allow you to live up to the expectations of others?

Helping others is good but you need to be aware of the fact that you cannot be available every time for everyone’s help. So, beware of making false promise that might affect your goodwill.

For example, you are in the middle of an important project while you neighbour approaches you with a mood to watch a cricket match. Both are vital to you; what will you prefer. You need to have a clear idea of what is important to you at that time. However, the best way to say no is to saying it politely. Make the other person understand your situation and refuse him in a nice way.

You are not obliged to accompany your friends for a movie every time. Better be focused on your goals and adjust these distractions in a way that it should not divert you from your goals. Even if you waste a single day, it can affect your plan of achieving your goals.

In a nutshell, helping others is the best virtue one can have. I only mean to say that refrain from making false promises and do not let others expect too much that they cannot take ‘No’ from your side positively.

5 Habits to Lead a Better Life!

  Let's not get into an impressive introduction! We all somewhere are aware of these facts that can help us leading a quality life but we turn a deaf ear to them. Let's take it seriously now and live a blessed life!

1. Observe Your Thoughts!

Many of us think that we have no control over thoughts. They just occur to us. It is true that we come across good and bad thoughts every day. But we need to observe our thoughts in order to get our energy moves towards right direction. So, if you come across one negative thought, redirect your mind to ten positive thoughts so that negativity would not exist for you.

  2. Make the Right Choice!

Life is beautiful. We all face ups and downs throughout our life. But the best part is that any adversity cannot last for long. Staying positive in difficult situation can not only ease you to face that time easily but also paves a way to a good future. We all have choices to say ‘No’ to Negativity. Don’t allow it if you really do not wish it.

3. Extend Help to Others! 

Helping others is the best way to experience true bliss of life. Do not look for excuses; start from where you are. This help can be monetary, morally or emotionally. Be it any form of help, it imbibes the good soul and makes you feel con tended. The more you will help others, the more you will create a good fortune for yourself.

4. Chase Your Dreams!

We all have some dreams in our life. There is a difference between goals and dreams. Goals can be achieved with consistent efforts but dreams can remain unfulfilled if you do not plan your actions. So turn your dreams into your goals and be persistent towards their fulfilment.

  5. Gratitude is the Way! 

Feel the power of gratitude. Be thankful for the blessings you have in your life. The more you will be grateful towards little things you have, there will be more reasons to feel grateful for. Remember, gratitude is the most powerful characteristic that one can ever have.

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